The Peace in Silence
February 1st, 2010
Guest post by Sheryl Hansen
Max Ehrmann’s Desiderata begins “Go placidly amid the noise and haste and remember what peace there may be in silence”. I have been reflecting on the peace in silence idea. What did Max intend when writing these words?
There is peace in the absense of any human or machine generated sound. And although it is not pure silence, the sounds of nature can be very soothing.
There is peace in holding my tongue, not saying those things that may bite if spoken to my kids or co-workers or friends. And there is peace in the knowledge that I preserved someone’s feelings or avoided an inevitable fight. The absence of the inevitable fight is also sustaining environmental peace.
What about internal peace? I believe that the constant internal dialogue in a person’s head creates a very noisy internal environment. The thoughts are very often negative and directed at the self. Pay attention to what you say to yourself. Does it sound like this at times?:
- “Gees, why can’t you remember that?”
- “When am I going to get it right?”
- “What’s up with the outfit that woman is wearing?”
- “I hate meetings, I wish I didn’t have to go to so many meetings, when am I going to get the work done that flows from this meeting…?”
- “I know he/she is mad at me. Why did I have to open my big mouth?”
- “I hate _____.”
- “I hate my ____ (usually a body part).”
- “I wish I had time to _____.”
- “Why can’t ____ do_____?”
- “Why doesn’t he/she listen to me?”
The list could go on and on. The truth is that most of us have some sort of constant dialogue, never allowing for silence in our heads. Another truth is, that it is habit to think constantly whether it be in positive or negative terms.
Practice the art of silence, in your environment and in your head. Turn off the TV at home for a bit, or drive home without the radio. And turn off the teleprompter in your head, even for just a few minutes, by focusing on something - a word, an image or a repetitive process. By the way, this is called meditation, whether or not you look or feel like a yogi!
Silence is golden. Silence is Peace.
Blog me about your experience of silence.
In addition to the above activities Food Services did a mug give away. If you were one of the first 100 people at the common market today at 10:30am then you would have received a free reusable mug. It only took 3 and a half minutes to give away all 100 mugs. The mugs were given away to encourage people to bring in their own mug instead of using disposable cups.
Guest post by Sheryl Hansen

